A former Navy man describes (with a certain amount of insubordinate glee) a singular commonality of treatment in relations between officers and enlisted men:
At any time and for pretty much any reason, you could challenge anyone else and he would have to explain what he was doing.
Makes perfect sense – if no one is above suspicion, sabotage and perfidy require a little more planning (and, regardless, the option to challenge likely served its purposes well as a pressure release for the rigors of the pecking order).
Consider your daily opportunities to challenge your attitudes and beliefs: the limitations which you believe to be in place are very real (in your imagination) and will, barring serendipity, prevent you from acquiring or even considering your potential. Limitations must be ignored to be understood. Limitations must be understood to be overcome.
What? Can’t you see what I’m doing here?
One must exceed oneself and one’s boundaries to dispel the imaginary serpents at the edge of the world. Find out where the real serpents are lurking.
They’re very real – why would I have told you about them, otherwise?
We are all limited in one way or another – physicality, intellect, and motivation are gauged easily enough by watching others – but the only shame deserving of a second glance is that which arrives with the realization you’ve dumbly laid lame your own dreams.
Are there seemingly-helpful attitudes and beliefs in your mind, happily going about their business, which limit you?
I challenge you to reconsider your worst fears.
Only the best fears come true.